I am not here to judge anyone, make anyone feel bad, this is not a personal attack; this is just my opinion about the current issues we all face within ourselves or family or friends. My first question is why do people feel the need to lie to make someone feel good and keep them in a trans, never helping them with the real issues and question their actions and hold them responsible. Is this because no one wants to appear to be the mean, bad, judgmental person? You can not honestly say every one is walking around expecting everyone to be informed and knowledgeable on everything in life. Life has become complicated in the industrial, technological world that is if you want to fill the gap and be current with everything why? because time and time again it has been proven that science, and information that old standards change over time. This is why I believe the best thing that have happen in my life is the disconnection of friends and family. All though this was some of my darkest times in my life, facing homelessness, alcohol dependency, and just uneducated also consuming anything that just ( tasted good ). Over time I was able to self analyze my problems and started researching and educating myself by looking outside the normal, sense normal has rejected me my whole life and left me homeless and delusional why would I keep going back to the same results and continue to sit in counseling sessions where I was answering my own questions. why would I get answers from people that were uneducated themselves? I was surrounded by judgmental, very bias people that were making up traditions as time passes by. Basing their new traditions around contaminated harmful foods and materialistic products that were based around lies and satisfaction. They all together have lost the true meaning of life, enjoyment, relaxation, education, and healthy living. These would be the first people to judge you and not welcome you, wile at the same time lying to each other by not being honest and lack of strength and honor. I could now see why at the time it was so difficult to question anything and just going along with things was the easiest way to make sense of everything and also brought a sense of comfort. When the comfort left me and I was left feeling sick, and depressed questioning everything, looking for answers from else where. Would I become to evil one, the trouble maker, the asshole if I was to choose to be involved in my family as I would want to raise and build my family off of.
Such as
(Trust, Honesty even when it hurts, learning to handle and deal with emotions, searching for solutions from wise and educated people and not hinder their thinking or beliefs by polluting them with on my opinion and facts, backing them up and holding them up through any kind of situation they might face and many more).
See If I was to be honest then when I am invited over for dinner, I want to know what ingredients you used, and if you used anything I deemed unhealthy I would not be eating your dinner and might even educate you on your mistake. Again I ask is this my place to do that? But if I truly love my family and hate seeing them suffer from obesity ,depression, unhealthy life styles then how could I just sit back and smile and say why yes I will participate in your unhealthy lifestyle, See its not so much the taste because you yourself have not changed your eating habits and changed your taste buds and digestive system then you will be confused which is why its important to educated yourself and understand taste is a billion dollar industry and yes its a proven fact your taste buds do change, also the chemistry inside your brain that triggers emotions change as well. Its not until you give into change that you will see the difference. Some of the problem is people want an easy solutions or one answer like o its the sugars. Then they think their doing something because they have focused and put all their energy in just changing the sugar intake and I am hear to sadly say its not enough and its more complicated than you think. This is where strength and honestly comes into play, how can you say your staying strong for your children or your raising your children to be Strong when you are participating and teaching your children to have a unhealthy lifestyle? This is not strength because when you are not doing the hard work and you are simply lying to yourself.
Yes the hard part is not just raising your children and I am not here to tell you how to raise your children either; again the focus is information and knowledge. Ask yourself these questions?
Are you rushing or in a hurry when you are shopping?
When you shop do you gravitate towards the cooler or more designed packaging?
Are you making choices based on taste and not health?
When reading the health labels do you understand what you are reading?
Do you know how properly read and know what to look out for when making your choice?
Are you eating out at fast food or even high end restaurants?
Are you eating over at a Friends or families place?
Are you eating out at fast food or even high end restaurants?
Are you eating over at a Friends or families place?
Do you want to play games with your health and limit your time here on earth? leaving the ones you say you loved behind questioning everything? all you can do is try something that is hard, that might make you feel uncomfortable or you might have to set aside one of your enjoyments or pleasures. This is for you to decide as you evaluate your own life. The survival of the fittest has changed and the ones suffering are only passing blame wile the ones surviving are teaching and trying to save the ones that ignorantly refuse to believe in change or anything different than what they have known or learned from someone just as ignorant.
If you do this and decide to actually change your eating habit for the better, it is not going to be easy by far. This will affect every aspect of your life and children's life.
1. First thing it will affect is your food budget. You will quickly find out that your food budget is going to sky rocket. This is OK because you need to understand that you are supporting companies that are working and fighting to get their products healthier for you. If you need to set you damn pride aside especially if you have children and get some damn FOOD stamps and help ease the burden. Understand there is nothing better than using government assistance to support companies that support our health. I would prefer this than using tax payer money to support a company using GMO's and not only harming our health but also the environment.
2. Second thing is it will affect how you manage your shopping time, for you will be reading a lot more labels if you want to have a variety of meals. You will need to educate yourself on GMO's, and other Harmful ingredients. You will need to ALWAYS check your expiration date.
(What you need to understand is these companies profit off of your ignorance)
3. Third thing is you need to get your whole family on board. Your immediate and distant if you truly love them and also don't want to feel left you when joining in dinner. Educate them on your experience and knowledge. This is the most important because it can cause arguments, hurt peoples feelings that choose to take it personal and not inform themselves that this is bigger than just them.
4. Fourth thing is this will affect is your social skills, testing you will power at any moment. Example: When you find out a teacher at school is giving your child candy as a reward, will you stand up and politely ask and explain why your child should not receive this as a reward? How about when your in public and someone offers your child something that's questionable and may have harmful ingredients, will you say no thank you?
In today's world we are to afraid to offend or be offended, why? this only comes with lack of understanding and acceptance.
one thing they taught us in the military in order to stay alive was that we were working in a 4d environment and we needed to pay attention to everything on either side, bottom, and top. This is import skills to have especially if you want to stay healthy and care about your self enough to make sure you are being treated the same. Stop disregarding your environment when you go into these restaurants. See most get excite and give away trust as soon as the see that a restaurant has been open for so many years. Why? because I start to think about everything they might have become lazy and complacent to do. As a society we continuously give a blind eye from holding people accountable, from standing up for what is right, why can someone die in a street or building full of people standing around? Lack of will power, Lack of control, Lack of knowledge, Lack of integrity for humanity, and lack of respect.
Its not just
Tom Corley, on his website RichHabitsInstitute.com, outlines a few of the differences between the habits of the rich and the poor.
1. 70% of wealthy eat less than 300 junk food calories per day. 97% of poor people eat more than 300 junk food calories per day. 23% of wealthy gamble. 52% of poor people gamble.
2. 80% of wealthy are focused on accomplishing some single goal. Only 12% of the poor do this.
3. 76% of wealthy exercise aerobically four days a week. 23% of poor do this.
4. 63% of wealthy listen to audio books during commute to work vs. 5% of poor people.
5. 81% of wealthy maintain a to-do list vs. 19% of poor.
6. 63% of wealthy parents make their children read two or more non-fiction books a month vs. 3% of poor.
7. 70% of wealthy parents make their children volunteer 10 hours or more a month vs. 3% of poor.
8. 80% of wealthy make Happy Birthday calls vs. 11% of poor.
9. 67% of wealthy write down their goals vs. 17% of poor.
10. 88% of wealthy read 30 minutes or more each day for education or career reasons vs. 2% of poor.
11. 6% of wealthy say what’s on their mind vs. 69% of poor.
12. 79% of wealthy network five hours or more each month vs. 16% of poor.
13. 67% of wealthy watch one hour or less of TV every day vs. 23% of poor.
14. 6% of wealthy watch reality TV vs. 78% of poor.
15. 44% of wealthy wake up three hours before work starts vs. 3% of poor.
16. 74% of wealthy teach good daily success habits to their children vs. 1% of poor.
17. 84% of wealthy believe good habits create opportunity luck vs. 4% of poor.
18. 76% of wealthy believe bad habits create detrimental luck vs. 9% of poor.
19. 86% of wealthy believe in lifelong educational self-improvement vs. 5% of poor.
20. 86% of wealthy love to read vs. 26% of poor.
2. 80% of wealthy are focused on accomplishing some single goal. Only 12% of the poor do this.
3. 76% of wealthy exercise aerobically four days a week. 23% of poor do this.
4. 63% of wealthy listen to audio books during commute to work vs. 5% of poor people.
5. 81% of wealthy maintain a to-do list vs. 19% of poor.
6. 63% of wealthy parents make their children read two or more non-fiction books a month vs. 3% of poor.
7. 70% of wealthy parents make their children volunteer 10 hours or more a month vs. 3% of poor.
8. 80% of wealthy make Happy Birthday calls vs. 11% of poor.
9. 67% of wealthy write down their goals vs. 17% of poor.
10. 88% of wealthy read 30 minutes or more each day for education or career reasons vs. 2% of poor.
11. 6% of wealthy say what’s on their mind vs. 69% of poor.
12. 79% of wealthy network five hours or more each month vs. 16% of poor.
13. 67% of wealthy watch one hour or less of TV every day vs. 23% of poor.
14. 6% of wealthy watch reality TV vs. 78% of poor.
15. 44% of wealthy wake up three hours before work starts vs. 3% of poor.
16. 74% of wealthy teach good daily success habits to their children vs. 1% of poor.
17. 84% of wealthy believe good habits create opportunity luck vs. 4% of poor.
18. 76% of wealthy believe bad habits create detrimental luck vs. 9% of poor.
19. 86% of wealthy believe in lifelong educational self-improvement vs. 5% of poor.
20. 86% of wealthy love to read vs. 26% of poor.
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